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9:43 p.m. - 2009-11-05

Ahhhh....to do it in a bed again, AT LAST.

You may be asking yourself, why she didn't do it in her own damn, Queen sized bed and put her son in his toddler bed....not so fast.

Our son has been a co-sleeper since he was born, and continues to co-sleep with us. We have no desire to break him of this habit as of yet. My husband, more than myself, seems to enjoy the close bond we all share having him fall asleep beside us at night and wake up with us in the morning - always a smile on his cute little pudgy face.

Back to the sex....

It was pretty hot being that we had not done it in missionary position for quite some time. (Usually we're on the L-shaped sofa, which really only allows us to assume a very snug spooning position.

I told my husband afterwards that we really need more nights like that. I don't want our sex life to ever be mediocre. We never had much in common when we decided to get married, except for the sex. Now we have sex, our son, and Netflix in common and have become best of friends as a result.

I wish I could get into baseball, basketball, soccer, all these things my husband enjoys...but it just doesn't do it for me, and my down time is extremely precious to me...what I choose to do with it makes all the difference.

Took the baby to the park today and let him run around after squirrels. It was great exercise for both of us. A few times I thought the squirrels allowed him to get a little too close for comfort before they scurried off up a tree. What would I do if one bit him? this is the way my mind works.

Met a nice woman who was there with her three year old, ten month old, and her mother. We got on the heated topic of the environment, but thankfully they were on the same page as I was and there was no debating the fact that we worry about what kind of world we'll be leaving our children.

Tomorrow I'll take him on a playdate. I'm really pusshing myself to get him and me out of the house and more involed.

I am soooooooo incredibly excited they're opening a FARMER'S MARKET up the street from me. It is very important to me that I support local farmers and buy the freshest food possible for my family. Rent FOOD INC. and you'll understand what I mean.

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12:50 p.m. - 2009-11-03

A friend of mine reminded me that after five years together, the fact that I still WANT to go on a date with my husband, and have sex with him regularly shows that we're not doing so bad. She also tells me that it will likely take me another three years before our sex lives, and our lives in general will belong to us again.

I read about it, I heard other mothers talking about it on TV, but I never expected it would happen to me. In fact I vowed that it wouldn't. Not having sex on a regular basis, NO WAY, that would never happen to me. But once the baby was born, and the responsiblities of parenting took over, we found and still find that there is little time and energy for intimacy. By the time the baby goes down at night we are both ready to fall asleep ourselves.

So what do we do...wait another three years until the baby is five, and in kindergarten, when he is less dependent and more self sufficient before we can get back to being truly intimate?

That simply is not going to suffice.

Note to self....try to get the baby down early tonight, put on something sexy and do it on the table instead of the damn L-shaped sofa.

Will let you know how it goes.

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